YES! Finally, someone can tell me exactly how to get my husband/boyfriend to read my mind and tell him exactly how I am feeling and what I am saying without actually verbalizing it. Seriously, if you are giving your man specific looks, sounds, noises, faces, phrases, or secret codes to try and get him to…
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Interviewing The Marriage of My In-Laws: Jeff and Lisa Byal
Hello readers! Today's interview is brought to you by my wonderful in-laws, Jeff and Lisa Byal! They have been married for 34 years! How cute are they?! Before you read any of this I want everyone to know that I literally have the BEST in-laws a girl could ever ask for. They are so kind,…
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The 5 Love Languages: How They Affect Your Relationship
The 5 Love Languages. We have all heard about them. Maybe you know all of them in detail, maybe you're a master at them, or maybe you don't know them at all. If you don't know what they are or how they came to be, here is a little background. Dr. Gary Chapman is a…
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When Two Become One
Last week, in the heat of California, literally, Brendan and I laid in bed and couldn't fall asleep And first of all, who ever told me that is doesn't get "too hot" in California is a LIAR. And has also not lived without AC. Because it is HOT and we are uncomfortable. But on the…
You Aren’t Given a Great Marriage
On your wedding day, almost everything you feel about your relationship is absolutely amazing. That's why you are getting married! It'd be silly to think that once you say "I do" that everything starts over. You already have a great relationship, which means you will have a great marriage! .....Wrong. You don't start with a…
10 Tips on Surviving your first year as a Milspouse
You just married your favorite military serviceman (or woman). Wow, amazing! You are on cloud nine! You tell yourself it will be hard, but you can survive and keep going and they can throw whatever they want at you but it won't stop you! Yeah, I thought that once too. And then I experienced my…
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Becoming a SelfLESS Wife
Raise your hand if you have ever heard at weddings or on TV someone says to their significant other, "You make me the happiest person in the world!" Yep, go ahead, raise your hand. We have all heard it and maybe said it. Why? Because we are naturally selfish people. SELFLESS having little or no concern for oneself, especially with regard to fame,…
Unrealistic Expectations
Lets talk about expectations. We all have them right? We have goals, a state of mind, or a really specific picture in our head when we think of different situations. In health, in families, in marriage, in work, in social lives, in the mirror, and life in general. It is perfectly normal and can be…
Is marriage 50/50?
I am a fan of the show "The Bachelorette". I know I know, you're all thinking "great, another bachelor nation fan. Blah, blah, blah." My mom and I used to watch every season together, and Monday nights were known as "The Bachelor(ette)" nights. Or Dancing with the Stars nights when the Bachelor was not on. (By…