Go To Bed Angry

"Don't go to bed angry" I can not tell you how many times I have heard that phrase in my life. Too many to count. When Brendan and I got married, at the guest sign in table we had this paper machete ballon that we had people put encouraging notes in. On our 1st anniversary…

10 Tips on Surviving your first year as a Milspouse

You just married your favorite military serviceman (or woman). Wow, amazing! You are on cloud nine! You tell yourself it will be hard, but you can survive and keep going and they can throw whatever they want at you but it won't stop you! Yeah, I thought that once too. And then I experienced my…

Becoming a SelfLESS Wife

Raise your hand if you have ever heard at weddings or on TV someone says to their significant other, "You make me the happiest person in the world!" Yep, go ahead, raise your hand. We have all heard it and maybe said it. Why? Because we are naturally selfish people.  SELFLESS   having little or no concern for oneself, especially with regard to fame,…