Displacement. This word has been in the back of my head ever since we moved the first time. Displacement. The dictionary definition of the word is "The moving of something from its place or position." As a military spouse, you kind of feel displaced for awhile. At least I did. And its a weird feeling.…
Well, it's been a little while since I have posted last. But here we go again. It's a new year, a new month, I turned 24 (ah!), and at the end of this January month Brendan, my husband, and I will celebrate our 1 year anniversary!! Oh my time sure does fly by fast. Since…
It's officially December. Do you know how long I've been waiting for it to be December? A long time. Well, actually 6 months but, it feels like a LOT longer. I have been wanting to think and write about what I've learned about being a military spouse so far. Thinking about it, I realized how…
This past weekend, Brendan and I celebrated the Marine Corps 241st birthday at the birthday ball, and also Veterans day the very next day. We spent a whole weekend away celebrating, and we were actually able to spend a WHOLE day together doing things all day long. That hasn't happened in a long time. I…
Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or really any social media site, all of them show the best side of our lives. It can be good or bad. Lots of people use it as a way of celebrating something and announcing their wedding engagement, new baby, relationship, job or life change. I have done all of those things,…
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What does it feel like to have a purpose. Is it one purpose your whole life or is it built of many smaller ones with some larger ones in between? What happens to those purposes when you start a career, get married or have kids? What is your purpose? Preparing for our move to Virginia…
One of my favorite new sounds now is the opening of the door when Brendan walks in. Sitting on the couch, or cooking dinner, patiently waiting for his arrival, I suddenly hear the sound of keys in the lock, wiggling the door handle and the peel of the rubber on the inside of the door…
When it comes to decision making I am the worst. My whole life I've always relied on others and their input and guidance to help me with decisions. It's always been my dad, or my brothers and now my husband, Brendan. I don't do the car insurance stuff, or the financing, deciding how much money…
Let me tell you one thing, I am married to the Marine Corps... and my husband. A quote I heard shortly after we moved for TBS was this, "When you marry a Marine you marry the Marine Corps, and get used to the Marine Corps coming first." Kinda like when you marry someone you marry…
Today is just one of those days. Its one of those days where my anxious thoughts are rising and loneliness is right on my shoulder. Brendan is gone in the field for a night doing NLN (Night Land Navigation, they have to find boxes in the dark in the woods.) Days like this I wake up…
The Short Wife 