Moving isn’t the part that sucks. Uh, you guys. Here’s how I’m really feeling. I don’t want to move, for multiple reasons. We LOVE California. We love the weather, the people, our neighbors, how much stuff there is to do, how dog friendly it is, everything. However, physically moving isn’t the part that sucks. STARTING…
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How To Get A Man To Read Your Mind
YES! Finally, someone can tell me exactly how to get my husband/boyfriend to read my mind and tell him exactly how I am feeling and what I am saying without actually verbalizing it. Seriously, if you are giving your man specific looks, sounds, noises, faces, phrases, or secret codes to try and get him to…
The 5 Love Languages: How They Affect Your Relationship
The 5 Love Languages. We have all heard about them. Maybe you know all of them in detail, maybe you're a master at them, or maybe you don't know them at all. If you don't know what they are or how they came to be, here is a little background. Dr. Gary Chapman is a…
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11 Gifs That Show How Hilarious Marriage Is
Marriage is fun, right?! You live with this person, eat with them, live with their bathroom habits, maybe have babies with them, and everything else in between. The weird thing that no one tells you about marriage is how.... well, how weird and hilarious it can be at some points. I don't know how many…
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When Anxiety Knocks on Your Door
I had lots of different thoughts about what to write this week. I had many different ideas, things written, titles, topics, personal things that happen, so on and so forth. But I couldn't really decide. One thing I do know is I will always be completely honest and transparent about the things I write and…
10 Tips on Surviving your first year as a Milspouse
You just married your favorite military serviceman (or woman). Wow, amazing! You are on cloud nine! You tell yourself it will be hard, but you can survive and keep going and they can throw whatever they want at you but it won't stop you! Yeah, I thought that once too. And then I experienced my…
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I Don’t Have a College Degree
I have been wanting to write this post for a long time. Most of you who know me in person, know that I didn't finish college. And I will (probably) never finish it. I went to Nursing school at NIACC. Dropped out. I went to the University of Nebraska - Lincoln for one year, it…
Starting All Over… Again
Here we go again. Our 3rd cross country move. From Nebraska to Virginia, Virginia to Florida, and Florida to California. It's so weird to think that I've lived all of these places. If you would have asked me when I was 16 what I thought my life would look like in 10 years, I would've…
Becoming a SelfLESS Wife
Raise your hand if you have ever heard at weddings or on TV someone says to their significant other, "You make me the happiest person in the world!" Yep, go ahead, raise your hand. We have all heard it and maybe said it. Why? Because we are naturally selfish people. SELFLESS having little or no concern for oneself, especially with regard to fame,…
Unrealistic Expectations
Lets talk about expectations. We all have them right? We have goals, a state of mind, or a really specific picture in our head when we think of different situations. In health, in families, in marriage, in work, in social lives, in the mirror, and life in general. It is perfectly normal and can be…









